Four Years
Four years ago today, I arrived in Mexico.
Six weeks later, I had a job offer and a new guy in my life
One year later, I was engaged to marry that guy — kind of terrified, but happy.
Two years later, I was a newlywed, and together we were surviving the bad economy and my husband's layoff.
Three years later, he had a new gig and we had just decided to expand our family.
Four years later, here I am, in my new apartment, with a three-month-old baby who just laughed out loud for the first time.
FOUR YEARS. That, to me, is a long time to be in one place. In fact, the last time I lived in the same city for four years straight was sometime bridging junior high and high school. I always enjoy discovering a new place, but I guess this time I chose someplace so huge and dynamic that there will always be something new to discover. That's what I've always said I love about Mexico City — you never know what's going to happen — be it good or bad. I mean, best case scenario, you might even find a job, get married and have a laughing baby! What could possibly be next? And what more proof do you need that my theory about the wild unpredictability of this place is true?
Coming to Mexico was definitely the best move I ever made — considering that it made all the other best moves I ever made possible (going out with, then marrying my Fran, having my wonderful W, etc.) I am so grateful to my mom who helped me get here when I needed to get here. Great things just happened for me so quickly. I could tell God was smiling on my decision. He set everything in motion and I am so thankful.
W is unfazed by my longevity in Mexico. His lion, on the other hand, is really something.


YUP, Sloanie! Absolutely the greatest decision ever. You took a huge risk and it majorly paid off. Que viva Mexico (y tu bebe mexicanos!)
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For the most part the quality of our lives are determined by the decisions we make good and bad. You obviously made a great decision. When I got out of college, back in the dark ages, I had a chance to work for a radio station in Sydney, Australia. The government there would have even paid my airfare and put me up in a free apartment for the first six months. I guess I just wasn't as adventurous as you and I turned down the offer. Now years later I often find myself asking "what if". I doesn't seem like there are any "what ifs" in your life and that is a great thing. God Bless.
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A slight addendum to my philosophical musings. I am not sorry for my decision not to tread off to Australia. I ended up marrying Brenda and we will celebrate 42 years together in October. I also am the proud father of two sons and the grandfather to two girls and boy. Ahhhh life is good.
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